What are BDSM toys and where to get them?

“A pet needs to obey his master at all cost, failing to which it is liable for sexy punishment!”

BDSM toys are the fetish with the largest following around the globe. From kinkiest to most shy, everyone loves to be a little naughty in bed. Fluffy handcuffs and faux leather collars look ravishing when worn with a leather baby doll! It has risen from just being a category in adult videos to sex.

People try BDSM either with choice or as an option to enhance their present intimate life. They commonly believed that trying something out of the blue brings back the lost touch between
couples.

However, It certainly is not the case for everyone because of its misrepresentation in movies and shows. People lack definitive knowledge about the BDSM and the essentials revolving around it such as toys used, preparations, safety, and process.

So for our dear first-timers, we bring-” kinky-sutra” the ultimate guide of pleasure made just for beginners who cannot answer some of the most important questions about Sex Toys in
India.

BDSM Toys

Bondage, Domination, Sadism, and Masochism, BDSM in short, is a form of sexual fetish that involves mild degree violence and forms of torture that are supposed to intensify sexual pleasure. Every human has different means of deriving pleasure, which is not only restricted to physical but to mental levels as well. Some violent acts such as slapping, spanking, whipping, and pulling give an immense sense of pleasure to some people, which is the literal intent behind BDSM for sexual pleasure.

BDSM is popular among the masses as an on-demand service. Many businesses provide sessions to their customers to experience BDSM.

Sex Toys in Kolkata (India) are famous owing to this trend. It even has a community dedicated to BDSM, which goes by the name of “Kinky collective”. Beginners either try BDSM out of curiosity or as an alternative to trying something new, whereas the experienced ones know
what the true colors BDSM can bring out in someone. It is one of the most beloved ways of showing submission to your lover and dominating a wild partner.

Hence, it is very easy for non-performers to perceive BDSM as just an act of hitting the other person, which is not at all what goes behind the scenes. The biggest red flag is the wrong
choice of words for “Dirty Talking”. We will talk about it in later sections. So looking forward to it!

BDSM Sex Toys

This unique form of sex fetish also has a set of unique weaponry. The online sex toys platforms are filled with gadgets that are used in BDSM bondage, such as bondage sets, anal
butt plugs, vibrators, Faux leather handcuffs, leashes, collars, and many more things!
A bondage set is like a mountain gear “harness” that enables to tie/lock the partner in desired positions from either bed, table, chair or hang. Handcuffs and ropes are similar substitutes for a bandage set that can tie a partner with different knots.

BDSM furniture such as Berkley horse, anal hook, and armbinder is used to elevate the physical pain that can gradually be increased with the amount of pressure applied on
the organ in focus (vagina in case of Berkley horse, anus in anal hook, and arms in armbinder).

Each toy has its own way of usage and a set of cautions, failing to follow, which may lead to form severe to mild injuries. Hence, it is advised to first recognize the limit and torture one
can tolerate.

After this first step, the second is to buy BDSM sex toys from a platform that is reputed and well trusted among other guys.

Whenever it comes to sex toys, it is advised to buy sex toys of good quality as it is an important part of hygiene. BDSM toys need similar attention when buying such as making sure that the product is made of good material and comfortable when used. Otherwise, what is the difference between a leash ordered online and one from a pet store?

BDSM Sex Play

It is not when you hit your partner, it will become a BDSM sex play (It does not work that way). BDSM firstly requires a shift from your regular mood and attitude while doing sex. It should
be as one has switched personality and is impersonating someone else. The mood, vibes, and aura in the room get shaped as per the mood of the one dominating.

A desirable course of action starts from stripping a partner to applying restraints in a dimly lit room with candles. A formal yet seducing attire is worn to increase the sexual tension and slow-paced movements such as rubbing and stroking parts of the submitting partner till reached an extreme.

Lubrication is generally avoided with the intent it will make BDSM is more kinky and painful. However, one may use some lubrication to turn it into a combination of acts (bondage +
massage). sweat is treated as another form of lubricant which is desirable during BDSM more than the actual lubricant as it represents the sexual tension better.

Dirty talking is also a part of BDSM, which either provokes or breaks the submitting participant to perform better. The vocabulary used is restricted to the acceptable words between
partners and not what is heard, used or said.

The partner can be tied to a chair, table, bed, pole, or hanged from a hook to imitate the atmosphere of the interrogation. This goes along with kind of role play, if done, such as kidnapping, interrogation, forced, etc.

Cautions

There are a set of important guidelines while using BDSM Toys. The idea of violence should not be confused with the will to withdraw. Following is the set of advisory that must be kept in
mind:

1. BDSM is based on the concept of violence with consent. It should be practiced only if both the partners agree on similar grounds and to the activities involved.

2. BDSM Toys used should be of good quality and for BDSM use only. Although it is easy to substitute many toys with household items, their effect can differ from what is desired.

3. The vocabulary used while dirty talking should be acceptable to both the participants. It is not advised to break the character and go for something harsh, which is new or unacceptable /offending to the partner.

Conclusion

BDSM toys are in all-time high demand because of the development of this new fetish and this is where the sexual aid (Sex Toys) comes into play. From onetime things to serious fantasies, BDSM toys render an unheard service to the unfulfilled desires of many.

This increase is not just because of lonely desperate- housewives. Outlook of sexual orientation is now more tilted towards no string attached relationship pattern among
youngsters. Which has given rise to the widespread acceptance of sex toys between men and women.